When we
speak about personal development, we are talking about improving the self.
Self-improvement
can be achieved by working on skills that you already have or training to get
new skills, by building your confidence
and becoming more motivated. The basic characteristic of personal
development is an increase in self-awareness. You need to identify your strong
points and weak ones. It’s kind of complicated to do on your own so it’s best
to turn to a personal development coach.
A life coach is especially trained to
bring out your strengths and weaknesses and to guide you through a personal
development plan.
After an
initial assessment, he will create a specific strategy to help you achieve your
goals. Together you will discuss the issues that are troubling you; they can be
emotional, mental, spiritual. Or they can be related to relationships or work.
It’s up to you to tell him what areas of your life you would like to improve.
Perhaps you would like him to address a concern you are having with confidence.
You have a very low self-esteem and your level of confidence is practically
zero. He will devise a plan which will help you gain self-confidence.
The coach
will not only work on the areas you mention but he will “analyze” you and
pinpoint the weak aspects you present. In short, he will improve your overall
condition. This way you will be better prepared to face any real life
situation.
If you are
looking for a job, for example, and you don’t have much confidence, you will be
nervous and you might not even have the courage to apply for a position. You
will be even more nervous if you don’t have good communication skills. How can
you face a job interview if you can’t put two words together decently?
What about
the skills needed for this particular job. Do you have them? Have you asked
yourself if you are qualified to do this specific kind of work? Do you have
what it takes? Well, the coach will help determine your skills and qualities
and enhance your chances of landing the job.
Going back
to your lack of self-esteem, this is a huge obstacle, both for employment as
for human relations. By increasing your confidence, your coach will increase
your possibilities of getting a job. One of the methods he will use to build
your self-esteem is by teaching you new skills, especially those needed for the
job you want. The more you know, the more you can do and the more confident you
become.
By increasing your knowledge and skills, you will also be open to various
career paths, you will have more choices to pick from. If you find one job not
satisfactory, you can plan to change it. The strength and skills you gain from
personal development will make you more “palatable” to employers. They are
always on the look-out for people who are confident, enthusiastic and who have
strong communication skills.
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